{"id":73,"date":"2013-07-15T00:03:30","date_gmt":"2013-07-15T00:03:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sharecatholic.com\/blog\/?p=73"},"modified":"2026-07-05T14:53:26","modified_gmt":"2026-07-05T18:53:26","slug":"questions-of-closeness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sharecatholic.com\/blog\/questions-of-closeness","title":{"rendered":"Questions of Closeness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">In today\u2019s Gospel, a lawyer asks Jesus, \u201cWho is my neighbor?\u201d\u00a0 Now, if someone asked me that question out of the blue, I would have countered with another question, \u201cWho lives next door to you?\u201d\u00a0 Or if some one asked me, \u201cWho is\u00a0<i>your\u00a0<\/i>neighbor?\u201d, I would answer, \u201cThe African-American family who lives across the road from our monastery.\u201d\u00a0 Or, when I was living at home, I would have given the name of the lady who lived in the next apartment.\u00a0 In other words, for me, a neighbor is someone who lives close to me.\u00a0I know the exegetes tell us that the term \u201cneighbor\u201d in first century Palestine had a much wider connotation, yet I think my homespun definition still has value as I interpret the Mass readings for today.\u00a0Jesus answered the lawyer\u2019s question by recounting the now familiar parable of the Good Samaritan who was able to transcend social and political prejudices to draw near and become neighbor to the robbers\u2019 victim.\u00a0 And so at the end, the real question is, \u201cHow can I come close to those who suffer and who need my touch, my compassionate love?\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 0.83em;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>But now for me, there is another question: I am a cloistered nun, and so by definition I am physically separated from 99% of humanity. Even in the monastic church and parlor, the places where I do have contact with my fellow men, an iron-wrought enclosure grille divides us. I am, quite literally, out of reach, but by that very fact I am not out of touch.<\/p>\n<p>It is one of the many paradoxes of the enclosed contemplative life that the cloister which limits our physical availability, actually allows us spiritual access to every human soul. By our union with Christ, we actually have the ability to touch, to love everyone He loves.<\/p>\n<p>The Sisters\u2019 own families are usually the ones to experience this mystery most poignantly. At first, the physical separation from their loved one is most painful, but gradually the grille becomes the occasion of a deeper dialogue, a more profound relationship, a spiritual closeness that no spatial distance can break. We all know the sad truth that two people can sit next to each other shoulder to shoulder and yet be miles apart in mind and heart. It works the other way as well. By her prayer, a cloistered nun is closer to you than your nearest friend.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;\u00a0 a Sister from\u00a0Barhamsville, VA<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In today\u2019s Gospel, a lawyer asks Jesus, \u201cWho is my neighbor?\u201d\u00a0 Now, if someone asked me that question out of the blue, I would have countered with another question, \u201cWho lives next door to you?\u201d\u00a0 Or if some one asked me, \u201cWho is\u00a0your\u00a0neighbor?\u201d, I would answer, \u201cThe African-American family who lives across the road from [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":74,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-73","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspirational"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Who Is My Neighbor? 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